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Yorktown VA to Florence OR - 3 years & 4,063 miles
Thursday, December 31, 2015 22 comments
I began this virtual journey to trek across the USA on Jan 1, 2013. Yesterday I crossed the finish line. This was the route I walked/ran. The dot marks my location on Aug 18, 2014. ... Read more

Sabotage at the Movie Theater
Wednesday, December 30, 2015 25 comments
Perhaps regular movie-goers can tell me if my experience is the new norm. When DH & I went to see Star Wars on Monday, we arrived at the theater 30 minutes early and the line was out the door. DH stood in line while I walked up to the fron... Read more

My SPAT (Spark Activity Tracker) just called to me
Tuesday, December 29, 2015 27 comments
I was feeling bad this morning because I lost my SPAT. I last had it for sure at 12 noon yesterday when I got home from the gym. DH really wanted to see the Star Wars movie. We never go to the movies, just watch them at home months after... Read more

Remembering Star Wars Past
Monday, December 28, 2015 15 comments
The last time Star Wars was in theaters the grandkids were caught up in the action. This was taken at Christmas 2003 when they were 2 - 9 years old... Read more

Oops, my bedsheets tell the tale this morning
Sunday, December 27, 2015 24 comments
Nothing kinky or gross, just a light sprinkling of red and green sugar. A house-full of company always means readjusting some sleeping arrangements, especially with 5 grandsons and 1 grand-daughter. Since she was little, we would send Gra... Read more

My 46 Year Old Christmas Tree
Friday, December 25, 2015 33 comments
Christmas 1969 was bleak. Our baby was 3 months old. DH had left for Vietnam a few weeks after she was born. In those days you weren't allowed to stay in base housing once he was deployed so we sent most of our stuff into storage, loaded the ... Read more

The search for running shoes for my difficult feet
Saturday, December 12, 2015 24 comments
I envy people with "good" feet. DH is one of them. He can grab anything on clearance sale and he's just fine. I'm like the woman in the fairy tale "The Princess and the Pea." Anything that's not quite right causes me discomfort which degener... Read more

When Genes Collide
Sunday, December 06, 2015 20 comments
I'm feeling introspective this morning, so this is a follow-up to yesterday's blog. I understand anxiety, both the situational and generalized forms. I have inherited my mother's "anxiety gene." She had a very severe case although 60 yea... Read more

Overcoming anxiety and just getting out there
Saturday, December 05, 2015 26 comments
There wasn't any serious reason for me to be anxious, but I was. Our town's annual 5K was at 8:30 this morning in 30 degree temps. It's a fun event held annually for the last 36 years. However, it is a killer course - very hilly - and I h... Read more

The Ultimate Official SP Life Challenge and me
Friday, November 27, 2015 20 comments
Yesterday Thanksgiving Day marked the first day of my 7th year of maintenance. Although I give total credit for my success to the motivation I receive by logging into SP each day, I don't usually participate in "challenges." I know they are ve... Read more

Getting dressed for a run in the dark - Oops!
Friday, November 20, 2015 14 comments
We're in Tennessee visiting MIL in the nursing home. We stay at the same Best Western every time. The staff is used to me running laps around the parking lot (1/3 mile around). This morning it was dark and DH was still asleep. These vi... Read more

An unexpected voice from France
Wednesday, November 18, 2015 16 comments
A few days ago while I and the rest of the world, were reeling from the horrific events in Paris, I received a surprise email from a stranger. As some of my spark friends know, my travels include walking in the footsteps of my Dad, a sail... Read more

If I hadn't found Spark People, where would I be now?
Thursday, November 12, 2015 27 comments
As I approach my 6 year anniversary in maintenance (ironically, Thanksgiving week), I have a different perspective on my journey. Of course I think about how my life has changed, but it's also important to recognize where I would be if I hadn'... Read more

Thinking of all veterans today, especially my Dad
Wednesday, November 11, 2015 13 comments
The first photo is in my Dad's WWII album and referenced in his diary. His ship the USS Philadelphia escorted President Truman to the Potsdam Conference to meet with Churchill and Stalin. Dad documented all his photos with labels. ... Read more

What to do when stranded in an airport?
Wednesday, November 04, 2015 18 comments
Measure the distance around the terminal and walk 6 miles. Not all at once, of course since I didn't want to attract security as a woman acting str... Read more

Do you remember Yugoslavia?
Sunday, October 25, 2015 16 comments
Capital Belgrade - controlled by Tito If yes, you must be at least 40 years old. 7 countries make up that area now - Croatia, Serbia, Slovenia, Macedonia, Bosnia - Herzegovina, Montenegro, and Kosovo. Unlike the "Velvet Divorce" that pe... Read more

Thoughts at the Border - Hungary to Croatia
Friday, October 23, 2015 17 comments
At 5:30 am all passengers were called to the ship's lobby for a "face check." This was different from the procedure familiar to us when sailing south on previous trips. Officials used to come on board and check the passports held at the desk. ... Read more

Sites of Germany that were new to us
Monday, October 19, 2015 19 comments
2 weeks in Germany & most evenings ended like this. No matter how often we travel to this part of the world, we always see something new. Like ... Read more

Berlin - the Good & the Horrific
Saturday, October 10, 2015 21 comments
This was our 3rd visit to Berlin so of course we saw the Brandenburg Gate, Museum Island and the Octoberfest & reunification anniversary events that I described yesterday. ... Read more

Finally we sail on the Elbe!
Friday, October 09, 2015 20 comments
This is our ship stuck in Wittenburg, Germany by low water levels. We didn't miss anything since they put us in a Berlin hotel for 3 days. I... Read more

Water Water Everywhere except where we need it
Tuesday, October 06, 2015 11 comments
DH & I fled the east coast rain and flooding for Europe to cruise the Elbe and then the Danube to the Black Sea. Because of the warm winter last year and lack of snow, the Elbe is too low for the ship to sail. So we are seeing the sites by... Read more

Healthy and Fit vs Thin - a blog question that made me think this morning.
Monday, September 28, 2015 19 comments
Healthy and fit...healthy and fit. That mantra caused me to accept the extra weight I was gaining each year. Finally, I realized that I was healthy and fit before, so why did I have to drag around all those extra pounds now? Why didn't I just... Read more

My “sitting” injury – literally a pain in the butt!
Wednesday, September 23, 2015 17 comments
I’ve reported oddball injuries before. Tripping over a sidewalk planter while scanning ahead for the Cheesecake factory (frozen shoulder) Missing a step at Golden Corral as I scoped out the dessert buffet and twisting my knee. Dro... Read more

A 70 year old pot on a 21st century stove
Monday, September 21, 2015 18 comments
Last week DH & I played Mom & Dad to 3 teenage grandkids while DD#1 & her DH were out of town. We brought with us a mountain of green beans fro... Read more

5 Miles Done and I Returned to This!
Sunday, September 20, 2015 21 comments
DH & I are in Asheville, NC at a meeting of the Carpatho-Rusyn Society “South” (my heritage group) where we saw an excellent presentation on the Wo... Read more

Strolling the Danube virtually - Regensburg, Germany
Thursday, September 17, 2015 18 comments
Although I love exercise, sometimes even I need some extra motivation. Here it is. I appreciate the trophies that Spark sends me to mark my... Read more

A Death Thousands of Miles Away
Thursday, September 10, 2015 22 comments
My cousin died suddenly. I learned about it yesterday morning. I met him for the first time in 2008 when my research succeeded in finding the descendants of my grandfather’s children who did not leave the “old country” for America. ... Read more

Like Mother, Like Daughter - Parenting Styles (video blog)
Wednesday, September 09, 2015 16 comments
DD#1 (Hayburner1969) & I made this video in 2007 to describe our solution to a common problem. The grandkids got a kick out of seeing their younger selves. They're teenagers now. The background music is being played by DD#1. Edit: ... Read more

Advice from a past team leader - Remembering his contributions
Monday, September 07, 2015 15 comments
For several reasons I decided this morning to find out what happened to a leader on one of my teams. I had never met him because his active tenure as leader preceded my membership 3 years ago. However, threads he had begun and nurtured were st... Read more

Rediscovering the BEAST in the basement and taking my own advice
Wednesday, September 02, 2015 21 comments
No, it’s not DH, although that is his domain. In the late 80s I bought one of the first generation “lifecycles.” I’ve had a gym membership since 1975, but I thought this would be more convenient. ... Read more

I ate "like a Viking"
Saturday, August 29, 2015 20 comments
Thursday morning we drove to TN for one our regular visits to MIL in her nursing home. This is always stressful – the 4 hour drive plus the days in the home itself. However, this time it was less stressful than the atmosphere in our town wher... Read more

The Day After
Thursday, August 27, 2015 26 comments
Thank you friends for your expressions of concern regarding yesterday’s shooting in my little town. If it had not been reporters killed live on camera during an interview, 2 more violent deaths would not have made the national news. It was... Read more

Run cut short by gunfire
Wednesday, August 26, 2015 27 comments
I never run TOWARD gunfire. The shots I heard this morning could be somebody taking early morning target practice or a drunk guy mad at his neighbor. You just never know so I went back home. This has happened before. I live on a country... Read more

Physical Hunger, Emotional Hunger and then there's ME!
Sunday, August 23, 2015 30 comments
I’ve experienced both types of hunger, but I also eat too much because it TASTES GOOD! Physical Hunger: I eat 2 substantial snacks per day. If I don’t, between meals I wilt like a flower lacking water. (I drink lots of water, and only wa... Read more

Do we have the right to know what is in our food?
Saturday, August 22, 2015 15 comments
Is there a point at which we stop messing with nature? I am not a technophobe nor anti science. I get my flu shot every year and appreciate most of modern life. However, GMOs (genetically modified organisms) are extremely concerning... Read more

Managing Fear - Looking it right in the eye
Thursday, August 20, 2015 31 comments
This is my kitchen. We renovated it when we retired in 2007. It's well arranged, functional and efficient, but tends to be cluttered most of t... Read more

" It's ONLY 4 pounds, don't worry about it"
Sunday, August 16, 2015 25 comments
It was supposed to be well meaning advice, but it’s not. At least part of it is not. In the last 8 weeks I’ve been through 6 countries and 5 states. Without my “parole officer” (my scale) to keep me honest and accountable each morning I a... Read more

Coca Cola funds scientists and SURPRISE, diet is NOT the main cause of obesity.
Wednesday, August 12, 2015 17 comments
Their conclusion is that lack of exercise is the culprit. I’m living proof that you cannot outrun your fork. Yes, move your body more, but I have to RUN one mile to burn 100 calories. That’s one chocolate chip cookie! Here’s the articl... Read more

Being Open to New Experiences Brings Surprises
Friday, July 31, 2015 19 comments
I like to travel. I like to try new things. From the glaciers in Switzerland to the old covered market in Istanbul, I want to see what’s out there and participate to the best of my ability. However, never did I EVER think you would find m... Read more

Sparkpeople.com is my lifeline - my tether to a healthy lifestyle
Tuesday, July 28, 2015 21 comments
I’ve been here for over 6 years. I’ve been in maintenance for over 5 years. I login every day unless I do not have Internet access. This has been a traveling, family summer. On June 26 DH & I took DD#2 & family to Europe for ... Read more

Our 3 Generation European Vacation - Paris, France - Country 6 of 6
Friday, July 24, 2015 14 comments
It’s not easy to describe Paris in a short blog We ate in a lot of sidewalk cafes unless people were smoking. Then we looked for an indoor location. Can’t enjoy the city when I’m wheezing. ... Read more

Our 3 Generation European Vacation - Vienna, Austria - Country 5 of 6 Thursday, July 23, 2015 14 comments
After stopping for 1 night in Bratislava to return our cars, we arranged a “limo” for the 45 min drive to Vienna. When DH & I travel alone, we take the bus between these 2 cities for 7 Euros each. However, considering the time and hassle of 6 ... Read more

Our 3 Generation European Vacation - Budapest, Hungary - Country 4 of 6 Wednesday, July 22, 2015 22 comments
DH & I have visited Budapest several times but always as part of a river cruise tour. We do not speak ANY Hungarian and the language is unlike any other in Europe. The Danube divides the city into 2 parts: Buda (hilly side) and Pest (fla... Read more

Our 3 Generation European Vacation - Slovakia - Country 3 of 6
Monday, July 20, 2015 17 comments
Slovakia, the eastern part of the former Czechoslovakia, was created on Jan 1, 1993 as part of the “Velvet Divorce.” I first visited in 2008 when I reunited with family with whom there had been no contact for 70 years. DH & I have return... Read more

Our 3 Generation European Vacation - Prague, CZ - Country 2 of 6
Saturday, July 18, 2015 18 comments
My generation remembers Prague as the capital of Czechoslovakia, but that country peacefully decided to separate into the Czech Republic and Slovakia on Jan 1, 1993 - the "Velvet Divorce." We flew from Zurich to Prague and I persuaded DD ... Read more

Our 3 generation European Vacation - Switzerland -- Country 1 of 6
Friday, July 17, 2015 30 comments
DH & I with DD#2 and her DH and 2 teenage children flew from Washington DC into Zurich and took a train to Chur. Chur was a lovely, picturesque... Read more

Updated my website with our April trip
Tuesday, June 23, 2015 26 comments
" A Conference, a Half Marathon and Walking through History" http://www.brigs.us/Euro
pe-Apr-2015/index.htm Now on to the next adventure with DD#2 and family in 2 days. From the Glacier Express in the Swiss Alps to Pra... Read more

What a JERK!! The enablers and saboteurs in our lives
Tuesday, June 16, 2015 23 comments
DH was surprised to hear me yelling at the TV. I had been asleep on the coach. Sunday was my REST day and I was really, really resting. I awoke to see a show on TV that was unfamiliar to me – “My 600 Pound Life.” So who was the jerk? No... Read more

Expanding My Fitness Horizons
Thursday, June 11, 2015 25 comments
I write all the time that logging into Spark every morning provides my daily dose of motivation. Sometimes it comes from an article, sometimes from a blog or even a recipe. If you are my spark friend, you are likely aware that exercise was... Read more

" In a Cloud of DUST with a Hearty Hi-Ho Silver!"
Thursday, June 04, 2015 17 comments
Thank you to all who read and commented on my blog yesterday. 8 days on the road including 4 with MIL in a nursing home, put me in a very introspective mood. Finally at home this morning, I find that Mr. Thompson’s quote still suggests t... Read more

Thoughts from a Nursing Home and an Unfortunate Quote
Wednesday, June 03, 2015 25 comments
Thank you for the kind messages about my MIL. She is settled into her new location and seems content with the situation. I visit several nursing homes as part of our church ministry and from what I’ve seen here so far, this one is excellent. ... Read more

Spreading the Spark and More
Sunday, May 31, 2015 24 comments
I’ve been on the road since Wednesday morning with only enough spark time to post my status. The last time I gave a conference presentation was just before my retirement and the focus was Educational Technology. My topic was “Virtual Fiel... Read more

Quo Vadis? Where are you going?
Thursday, May 21, 2015 15 comments
Some grandmotherly advice for all you young women out there. Since I’m 68, it’s likely that anyone reading this is younger than me. I’m working on a presentation to be given twice next week in cities 300 miles apart. One difficult p... Read more

“ Until now I did not know why your husband chose you”
Monday, May 18, 2015 16 comments
This is a sequel to my last blog where I wondered if my personal preferences give the wrong impression. Thinking about it more, I thought I’d share the above actual comment to me several years ago. I wasn’t offended because: The spea... Read more

I wear loose fitting clothes but I’m not hiding or hating my body
Friday, May 15, 2015 32 comments
I read a blog and a separate article recently about women who dress a certainly way because of their body image. I understood the intent, but now wonder if my preferences give the wrong impression. Loose fitting clothes: They are comforta... Read more

This is NOT what I expected to eat our first day in France
Monday, May 04, 2015 21 comments
Lunch Dinner I don’t even eat this at home, so why in the land of quiche, amazing bread and p... Read more

Le Harve France and My Personal Walk Through History
Sunday, May 03, 2015 20 comments
Although not a typical tourist destination, this city had special significance to me. It was about an hour’s drive east of the D-Day beaches. This is Le Harve in 1945. Located at the mouth of the Seine, a major port for centuries, it wa... Read more

They Gave Up Their Collective Future to Ensure Ours
Thursday, April 30, 2015 23 comments
I live in Bedford, VA. It’s the site of the National D-Day Memorial, since this little town lost more men per capita than any other place on June 6, 1944. So the Norman... Read more

Gotta Love Races in Europe - a shirt, a medal AND a bottle of wine!
Saturday, April 25, 2015 25 comments
DH and I packed a lot of variety into this trip to Europe. He was presenting a paper at a conference in the Czech Republic. This just happened to coincide with the Czech... Read more

Telling a slim woman to eat a sandwich is just as rude as telling an overweight woman to eat a salad
Friday, April 10, 2015 18 comments
I read the text of Candace Bergen’s interview on the Today Show. I’ve always liked her and I was happy to hear that she was no longer trying to emul... Read more

Who are you and what have you done with my husband?
Tuesday, April 07, 2015 59 comments
It’s 6 am and DH is packing his swim bag for the gym. I’m sitting in my recliner in my PJs drinking coffee and checking in on Spark. That’s my morning routine. He’s getting ready to leave. That is NOT his morning routine. What has cau... Read more

You don't want anyone to think our team cheats, do you?
Saturday, April 04, 2015 16 comments
This was directed at DH – an honest man who, like many of us, can sometimes underestimate the amount he eats and overestimate his exercise. If portion distortion causes me to incorrectly enter the amount of spaghetti or cheesecake into th... Read more

I would be laughing this morning except for an inconvenient truth.
Wednesday, April 01, 2015 23 comments
I log into Spark every morning for my dose of motivation. Today’s headline in the daily email: “Government Adjusts Weight System to Help Country Lose Pounds” Written by Mike Kramer on March 30, 2005 as an April Fool's Joke It said: ... Read more

Thoughts from a hospital corridor – another reason to maintain a healthy weight
Saturday, March 28, 2015 31 comments
DH & I are in Tennessee since his mother is in the hospital. She’s 95 and in addition to the bladder infection (a frequent occurrence) she also has pneumonia. She has always been a big, strong woman. In her middle years she was somewhat... Read more

My Happiest Half Marathon - Proof in Pictures
Wednesday, March 25, 2015 31 comments
I was not well prepared as I described yesterday, but it was a most enjoyable race. It was rather windy at the start. We were right off the beach after all, but I had a plan. If I stood behind this very tall guy, the wind wasn’t a problem. ... Read more

Having realistic goals – thoughts after a race
Monday, March 23, 2015 23 comments
DH & I had a lovely weekend in Virginia Beach. The Shamrock Marathon weekend is very well organized. However, I was not well prepared. I knew this and blogged about it 12 days ago. "The voices in my head and my Dad’s jacket" htt... Read more

I'm a 'B' - I'm a 'B' and I'm thrilled about it!
Sunday, March 15, 2015 20 comments
No, it's not my bra size or that word that gets deleted from online comments. My all-time spark trivia score is finally 80% which I consider the 'B' level (apologies to those school districts that calculate it differently). When I began ... Read more

The voices in my head & my Dad’s jacket
Wednesday, March 11, 2015 26 comments
I have a half marathon in 11 days. I am not well prepared. In January my allergy/asthma triggers (perfume & cigarette smoke) sidelined me for a week. In February a night out with friends resulted in food poisoning and another week lost... Read more

I broke my own rule and bought running shoes online
Monday, March 09, 2015 20 comments
It’s been a personal choice for me to support my local running stores. “Local” is a relative term out here in the country. I’m between two cities so I have a 40 min to 1 hour drive each way. Fortunately, I only need new shoes every 6 months a... Read more

The Mystery of the Missing SPAT – a “Who Done it” Story
Tuesday, March 03, 2015 27 comments
More precisely it’s a “What Done it” because after more than 2 days of searching I can blame the disappearance on “Dustin” our “Roomba.” That’s the robot vacuum cleaner that my son gave us a few years ago. Our grandchildren named it afte... Read more

A Tale of Two Weeks
Monday, February 23, 2015 25 comments
I like Spark Trophies. I once insisted to DH that we had to walk for 10 more minutes so I could reach the next level. DH: They send you a trophy? Me: No, I get an email with a picture of a trophy. DH (Rolling his eyes): Let’s go. ... Read more

Icebound in South Central Virginia? Look at my boat!
Saturday, February 21, 2015 22 comments
It’s not like I planned to go for a sail or a cruise on the lake, but this was a surprise this morning. The sailboat is 25 feet long. That’s a lot of ice. ... Read more

When a night out goes terribly wrong
Wednesday, February 18, 2015 20 comments
I posted the short version in my status Monday morning. A few hours after dinner at a local restaurant, I began having GI issues which continued until the next morning. Monday: The only activity I did was to log into Spark to get my poi... Read more

Thinking about pregnancy at age 67
Friday, February 13, 2015 27 comments
No, I’m not announcing or planning a medical miracle. Blame it on the Beatles. My choral society is performing a concert of Beatles music and through the months of rehearsals I’ve been digging out my old clothes from the 60s and 70s. I ke... Read more

Destination Walmart – my long walk
Wednesday, February 11, 2015 23 comments
First of all, why Walmart? It’s not one of my favorite places for several reasons I won’t list here. However, suddenly they are the ONLY place that stocks my organic yogurt (Stonyfield - plain and their non-flavored Greek variety). I buy both... Read more

Tai Chi and Me and my search for a “perfect” exercise class
Monday, February 09, 2015 21 comments
I have belonged to a gym or some kind of fitness center for 40 years, beginning with “Spa Lady” in 1975. Back then aerobic classes were 20 minutes long and we jumped around shoeless in leotards, tights and sometimes even leg warmers. I lik... Read more

Can this be called food?
Tuesday, February 03, 2015 26 comments
Yesterday, my errands were taking longer than expected and I was hungry. While standing at the “express” checkout with my 2 bananas, waiting for the clerk to get a “price check” for the customer ahead of me, I was attracted to this display. ... Read more

Look, I have a complete rainbow now!
Monday, February 02, 2015 20 comments
Last week I wrote that my plate was all shades of orange and resolved to add green. Ending my first successful week, this dinner includes my turkey meat loaf, sweet pota... Read more

I HATE reading! Does that shock you?
Friday, January 30, 2015 24 comments
Of course it’s not true. I’m here every day both reading and writing. I read mostly for information and to stay connected to the world. My taste in fiction leans toward historical novels. What if your child came home from school and said... Read more

Cardio, Strength Training, Flexibility, Balance – trying to work on all aspects of fitness.
Thursday, January 29, 2015 19 comments
I like physical activity. I always have. However, I don’t like all options equally. Cardio – no problem! I don’t even need music or companions or TV. Outside, nature is enough. Indoors, I’m content with my own thoughts. Strength T... Read more

I love my SPAT - It’s not perfect but neither am I
Wednesday, January 28, 2015 15 comments
I like that it (SPark Activity Tracker) keeps track for me, both the “workouts” and those random steps throughout the day that don’t fit the “10 minute of continuous activity” standard. Yesterday when I saw the results it posted, I was a bi... Read more

Remembering pizza - thanks to Spark Guy’s Sunday blog
Monday, January 26, 2015 30 comments
Today I’m thinking about all the pizza I ate while growing up in Brooklyn, NY. Living in a neighborhood of immigrant families from all over the world, one thing we all had in common was that we ate lots of carbs. My heritage was pierogi an... Read more

Joe’s “Antique” Food - Do not eat!
Friday, January 23, 2015 23 comments
The title of this blog is what’s written on the paper in the top right portion of this photo. In my status today I said that I would be organizing my food pantry a... Read more

There’s a color missing from my rainbow
Thursday, January 22, 2015 22 comments
It’s not easy being green, for me at least. During my spark years I’ve learned a lot about nutrition. I suppose I’ve always known that it’s important to eat fruit and vegetables, but knowing doesn’t always lead to doing the right thing. F... Read more


If I had a pre-set weigh-in day, I might feel really bad this morning.
Monday, January 19, 2015 62 comments
My daily Spark email includes yet another article about avoiding the scale. “4 Signs It’s Time to Step off the Scale.” Oh, there I am in #3 “You can recite your weight to the nearest fraction at all times” Yeah, sure I can. I s... Read more

What a surprise! I’m “elderly”!
Wednesday, January 14, 2015 22 comments
When did that happen? I don’t feel elderly. When DH & I travel to Europe, we like to stay in hotels popular with local people rather than the US style chains. When traveling with family and staying in one place 3 days or more, we rent... Read more

Taking my own advice – not always easy
Wednesday, January 07, 2015 23 comments
1) “Rest and come back stronger” That’s something I’ve said to others who are sick or injured. I do believe it, but last week when I was a lump on the couch (see last blog), it was tough advice to accept. There was that voice in my ... Read more

A non-spark day so bad it’s actually funny
Friday, January 02, 2015 30 comments
On Wednesday I posted a status that I was feeling “under the weather.” My attitude was as bad as I felt, especially since I know my situation could have been avoided. What turned me from an energetic, determined sparker into a lump on the... Read more