Over the years, I have had many completely bizarre
experiences with completely random people. These encounters have ranged
from art critiques from homeless men to attempting to climb large scale
bridges. Although these happenings were never planned in advance, they
stemmed from a plan that was completely legitimate; the art critique
happened while waiting for a ride from Union Station after returning
from a portfolio review in Baltimore,
the bridge climbing stemmed from a plan to walk around in Georgetown for
a few hours.
The art critique was at first disorienting but ended
up being one of the most moving experiences of my life. As I exited
the Amtrak train that had delivered me from Baltimore,
I had the option to take the subway home or to get a ride directly
from Union Station. I opted for the ride, the path I rarely take for
fear of missing some preposterous activity or off-color experience.
While sitting outside on a Jersey barrier, a homeless guy about 55
years old started to talk to me. I tried to just sort of phase him
out, but when he saw my large portfolio envelope he asked me if I was
an artist. I replied yes, expecting the man to attempt to strike up
a conversation in order to get more money from me. He asked to look
through the envelope and I figured, “What could it hurt?” so I let
him. He admired my use of color on a self portrait, I thanked him and
expectedly he asked me for some money. I said I had only two dollars,
and I gave him one. We talked about homeless shelters and how they
often do not meet the needs of the homeless.
After a few minutes
of talking about the cracks in the system, he turned to me with a face
as excited as a kid on Christmas
and told me that a group had set him up with an apartment that he was
to move into in May, six months away. The feeling that came over me
when he shared this information was like nothing else I’ve ever felt.
I don’t know if I was the first person that he had told or the one
that cared the most, but it just felt like a reward for talking to
him.
After another 10 minutes
we shook hands because he needed to try to get more money for food
that night. After I got home
later that evening, I decided to go visit him the next chance I got.
Later in the week, I went through the pantry and procured some foods
that he could carry easily and that wouldn’t spoil. I packed the food
in a paper bag, just like my mom used to pack me lunches but with different
foods. I hoped he would enjoy the pineapple, granola bars, and soups
with pop tops for easy opening at some point.
Days later when I got
to Union Station, it took a while to locate him. I looked where I first
met him out at the bus
waiting area but didn’t find him. I looked in the park but didn’t find
him there either. When I was on my way back to the subway, I found
him standing by the cab line, getting cabs for people who were too
lazy or too incompetent to hail their own. When he saw me at first
he didn’t recognize me, but after I smiled at him and said “hi” he
took a break from working the traffic. We talked for a bit about how
the weather was getting colder and he was still looking forward to
his new apartment. I asked him how he was otherwise and he showed off
his new coat, boots, and gloves. The same look that he had when he
told me about how he would get a place to live crept on his face after
I offered him the bag. I wondered if I was the first person to offer
him this sort of good will since he had been living on the street.
Either way, I never expected to meet a random homeless guy who would
briefly critique my portfolio and talk to me about housing for the
homeless, just for choosing to get a ride instead of taking the subway.